How to Communicate with a Geisha

This post is to give you a better idea of how I operate and how you can get a response from me:

First of all, I am grateful and feel blessed to have had so much support from so many people and as with anything I do, I like to put in 100%.  I have made it my mission to be as accessible and down-to-earth as possible.  I want people to see that I am a REAL person and not just an online character or persona putting on an act.  This is one of the changes I've made to my YouTube channel and my blog. 

For those of you who have contacted me via email since I launched LoveliestFeet.com and my YouTube channel last summer I want you to know that I have every intention of responding.  I read every single email I get even though I may not respond right away.  

I want you to know that if you take the time to write me an email, I will take the time to reply and to acknowledge your effort.  The only exception to this is if you send me a vulgur or disrespectful email.  

I have no problem when someone wants to share with me that they get off from watching my videos or pics - I'm not naive and I am vey open-minded about foot fetish and sexuality in general.  

What I DO have a problem with is people who email me pics of their penis.  It's no different than walking up to me on the street and flashing your cock at me - people get arrested for that.  Have some self-control and the decency to at least ask for permission before you show yourself to me.  If you DO send me things like that or are disrespectful to me in any way, I will simply ignore you.  You get what you give.  Simple Law of Attraction.  You are disrespectful, You get no respect in return.

I also don't like it when people tell me what to do or what I should do, like they own me.  Most of you are polite and make "requests" rather than commands and I appreciate that.  

There are nice ways to ask for what you want and there are childish and disrespectful ways to ask for things.  Think before you write.

It also is nice to get emails with at least a first name.  I'm putting my self out there with my videos and website and giving out lots of personal information about myself, the least you could do to EARN a response from me is give me a first name.  This doesn't even have to be your real name - just a name.  I'm not going to hunt you down and try to find out who you are so I can tell everyone you have a foot fetish and ruin your life, NO.  It's just nice to put a name to an email and even better, if you send me a photo of you, I can put a face to a name.  I am more likely to remember people who send photos of themselves - it's just the way my brain works - I'm visually inclined.  So, it's not mandatory, but if you want to make a memorable impression on me and separate yourself from all the other foot lovers who write me, send me a pic.  I will never share this pic with anyone or upload it - it's just for me.

So for those of you who wrote me an email as far back as last year, I wanted to let you know that you WILL hear from me but I ask for and appreciate your patience.  I have a backlog of literally hundreds of emails to go through and that list is growing every day.  

I do not respond to chat requests or messages sent to me through YouTube, Twitter or Flickr - there's just no way I can manage all of that and I would rather answer all of my emails myself than hire someone else to pretend to be me.  I'm not someone who enjoys being on the internet or computer - I can only handle a couple hours a day tops.  

I am a much happier person when I spend my time doing a variety of things AWAY from the computer.  When I'm happy I have more energy and motivation to be creative and make more foot media to share with the world.  

So I hope this helps to clarify why I take so long to answer emails and why I choose not to respond to other messages.  

Thank you for reading!

Kia ; )

Click "How to Communicate with a Geisha" to see the Video version.

The Psychology of Smelly

Smelly Feet, Smelly Stockings, Smelly Socks, Smelly Shoes.

What's the big deal?  I can totally understand why certain smells in general are appealing to certain people.  The smell of your favourite dish that mom used to cook or the smell of a campfire can be very nostalgic - smells seem to have that kind of power for some people that triggers the brain and memory.

I learned in Anatomy & Physiology class years ago that there are people used in research called "Supersensors" because they have exceptionally sensitive senses of smell or taste.  

We all end up somewhere along the spectrum of smell sensitivity with some people being able to distinguish between the tiniest differences in smell [the movie "Perfume" was about a man who had this ability] and other people like my mom, who can only smell pungent things like vinegar or sour kim chi [reference to my Korean heritage].

What I'm curious about at the moment are smells that AROUSE us... and even more curious about the specific smell of strong foot odour.

I have to say that on some occasions I've been really put off by the stench of a man with particularly pungent feet after sweating in leather shoes and socks for a day.  Some smells were so strong it induced the gag reflex.  I can't imagine any woman having such a strong odour but I don't really go around smelling women's feet.

So, although smelly feet is not my thing, I have to admit that I am definitely aroused by other smells.  As I recently mentioned in my YouTube post called "Smell my feet, I'll give you something good to Eat", I like the smell of my armpits.  Especially, when they're clean but lightly scented with fresh sweat.  One day I realized the connection to my armpit smell and the smell of testicles.  

Yes, I love the smell of balls.  Please note, this heavenly aroma can easily be ruined by other "parts" in the vicinity that are not-so-fresh smelling.  I like Manimal stink, in general.  I much prefer natural body odour (as long as the guy is hygienic) over strong cologne.  There are certain colognes that I like too but if I had a choice, Eau de Man, for sure.  This doesn't mean that I like every man's smell, but it might explain why I'll choose to dance with the geeky guy over the muscular athlete ; )

I remember hearing on the radio one day that the #1 determinant in humans for choosing a mate is Smell.  This is consistent with that phrase about having "chemistry" between 2 people.  We may think we are attracted to another person primarily because of their sense of humour or their beautiful feet but according to some research that was done (don't ask me to reference this, it was years ago), the decision is ultimately made based on how much you like a person's smell.  I tend to agree with the research but I also think it might depend on how sensitive a person's sense of smell is compared to their other senses.  For example, someone who has a relatively strong sense of hearing might choose a partner primarily based on the sound of their voice.

Here's something interesting that I recently read:

Celery contains the hormone androsterone which is released when you sweat.  On a primal level, giving off this odourless pheromone can have a Tarzan effect and attract horny Janes.

I'm not sure how true this is or whether it holds the same power for females who eat celery.

So back to the smelly feet... I'm curious to know what exactly it is about smelly feet that you enjoy.

Is it because you have a poor sense of smell and need her feet to be extra stinky in order to get any foot aroma?

Is it because the smell reminds you of your hot grade school gym teacher's smelly feet?

Or because female foot stink reminds you of a woman's 

VagAroma (Yes, I love making up new words)?

This inquiring mind wants to know...

Kia

Geisha's Sexy Nutrition Tips: GINGER

According to yogic nutrition, ginger root is good for general sexual strength.  When taken raw (juiced) or cooked, it helps build a strong nervous system.

According to Traditional Chinese Medicine, ginger has a warming effect on the body and is good for circulation.  Ginger tea is often prescribed for colds/flu, menstrual cramps, and also to strengthen the nervous system.  In sexual terms, good circulation means optimal blood flow to the penis during arousal.  Have I got your attention?

Geisha’s tip: Drink tea with fresh ginger instead of coffee for your morning perk.

I love the taste of coffee but after I heard that it negatively affects a woman’s ability to have an orgasm I looked for healthier alternatives.  I drink homemade Yogi Tea every morning.  You can also find Yogi Tea in bags in health food stores or online.

Yogi Tea Recipe

(adapted from a Kundalini Yoga Recipe)

Ingredients:

15         cloves

20         green cardamom pods (slightly crushed)

20         black peppercorns

1-3     cinnamon sticks (depending on the size)

8         ginger root slices (I always add more because I like ginger and it’s good for me)

2 L         water

2 tsp Black tea (I use green tea for its added health benefits)

        Milk (I use almond milk because it’s vegan)

Directions:

Place the first 6 ingredients in a pot and cover until it comes to a rolling boil.

Lower the heat to let the tea simmer for 20 minutes or so.

Add the tea and and let it steep for a few minutes.

You can enjoy it hot as is or with a little milk & honey - Mmmm.

Or let the pot cool and refrigerate the tea.

If I’m in a hurry in the morning, I put about ¾ tea with ¼ almond milk into a little bottle and take it to go instead of buying coffee.  There is so much flavor I don’t even add sweetener.

Simple Ginger Tea Recipe

Grate or thinly slice about 2” of fresh ginger root (peeled or unpeeled) into one quart of water.  Simmer for 10 minutes.  Drink with milk and honey to taste.